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Get Ready to BIFF Your High Conflict Ex wth Bill Eddy!
In this very special episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with the leading high conflict divorce expert in the world, Attorney, Mediator and Therapist, Bill Eddy, who shares the fundamentals of his BIFF Method for managing communication with a high conflict ex!
Whether you are divorcing a narcissist or are embroiled in any difficult relationship, a hallmark of a high conflict case is the flood of hostile calls, emails and texts that are repeatedly sent by one or both of the parties. This barrage often flows over into social media and into conversations with others. The constant cycle of conflict is crazy-making and seemingly impossible to control but that was until Bill Eddy and his BIFF method arrived! With the release of the third book in the BIFF series, "BIFF for Co-Parent Comunication," ...
published: 25 Jan 2021
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BIFF for CoParent Communication
published: 15 Mar 2021
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A BIFF Response Works!
Get the full video: https://high-conflict-institute-online-learning.teachable.com/courses
Are you burned out by hostile emails, rude texts and social media attacks? A BIFF Response (sm) is Brief, Informative, Friendly and Firm. It helps you get back in control and feel good doing it!
published: 07 Mar 2015
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Biff
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Producer: Vladimir Boudnikoff
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published: 12 Nov 2020
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Using BIFF Responses
Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter talk about using BIFF Responses, which are responses to use when a High Conflict Person sends you a hostile communication via email, text, social media post, letter, or the like. Tune in to find out how to deal with these!
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People
Episode 2, Season 1
October 28, 2021
★ Episode details: https://share.transistor.fm/s/66b4d4f3
★ Additional episodes: https://trustory.fm/its-all-your-fault
published: 24 Jan 2023
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If You’re Texting Your Ex, Remember to BIFF
When you’re communicating with your ex about the children or other issues, it can be hard to pick up the phone and face the emotional challenge of a conversation. Texting or emailing can feel easier at times, but be sure to do it the right way.
Bill Eddy, of the High Conflict Institute, devised an acronym that provides a great tool for effective text and email communications — BIFF. This acronym reminds us to be: Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm. If you keep these four principles in mind, you can communicate effectively with as little animosity as possible.
BRIEF – Keep your communications brief. If you have a question or need to convey information, make sure your post is focused on one single message. Avoid compound questions or complicated explanations.
INFORMATIVE – If you know ...
published: 05 Mar 2021
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Aya Nakamura - Biff (Paroles)
Nouvel album 'AYA' enfin disponible ici : https://AyaNakamura.lnk.to/aya
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published: 12 Nov 2020
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The Biff Method when trying to coparent with your narcissistic ex #biff #biffmethod #narcissist
published: 29 Mar 2023
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Better Communication with the BIFF Response
How do you use a BIFF Response in Divorce? -- Special thanks to Kristen Darcy Divorce Coaching for putting together the fabulous Divorcing Intact Virtual Summit April 4-8, 2016 and for rounding up a dedicated group of experts to participate. Kristen Darcy is an award-winning author, motivational speaker, life coach & expert on the emotional aspects of infertility & divorce. Visit her website at www.kristendarcy.com
published: 12 Apr 2016
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Get Ready to BIFF Your High Conflict Ex wth Bill Eddy!
In this very special episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with the leading high conflict divorce expert in the world, Attorney, Mediator and Therapist, Bill Eddy, who ...
In this very special episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with the leading high conflict divorce expert in the world, Attorney, Mediator and Therapist, Bill Eddy, who shares the fundamentals of his BIFF Method for managing communication with a high conflict ex!
Whether you are divorcing a narcissist or are embroiled in any difficult relationship, a hallmark of a high conflict case is the flood of hostile calls, emails and texts that are repeatedly sent by one or both of the parties. This barrage often flows over into social media and into conversations with others. The constant cycle of conflict is crazy-making and seemingly impossible to control but that was until Bill Eddy and his BIFF method arrived! With the release of the third book in the BIFF series, "BIFF for Co-Parent Comunication," Bill Eddy helps you to regain a sense of control and peace that will benefit both your life and that of your children. The BIFF method will help you to craft responses to the hostile communications from your ex that will defuse the conflict and remove you from the cycle. Simply put, being Brief, Informative, Friendly and Firm (BIFF) is your key to freedom and there is simply no better guide out of the darkness of a high conflict relationship than Bill Eddy!
In this episode Bill shares:
The simple logic of being brief, informative, friendly and firm and why it works.
How YOU decide what kind of response you will receive from your ex.
Why you need to absolutely avoid the 3 A's.
A simple substitute for saying "I'm sorry . . ."
Why Bill says you should get Miranda Rights before you go on social media.
AND SO MUCH MORE!
This episode is absolute GOLD for anyone experiencing difficulty in communicating with a volatile ex so listen today and start taking your life back one BIFF at a time!
Get your copy of "BIFF for Co-Parents: Your Guide to Difficult Coparent Texts, Emails and Social Media Posts" here: https://amzn.to/3omR1bz
More about this week's very special guest: Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., Co-Founder | Chief Innovation Officer, San Diego, California is a lawyer, therapist, mediator, best-selling author, co-founder, and Chief Innovation Officer of the High Conflict Institute. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP Theory) and has become an international expert on managing disputes involving high conflict personalities and personality disorders. He provides training to lawyers, judges, mediators, managers, human resource professionals, businesspersons, healthcare administrators, college administrators, homeowners’ association managers, ombudspersons, law enforcement, therapists and others. He has been a speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries.
Visit the High Conflict Institute to find out more about Bill, the Institute's wealth of resources for managing high conflict relationships and more of Bill's books! https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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Those who register for early access will be able to lock in membership at only $5 per month and one lucky early access member will receive a FREE year of membership!
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Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive
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https://wn.com/Get_Ready_To_Biff_Your_High_Conflict_Ex_Wth_Bill_Eddy
In this very special episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with the leading high conflict divorce expert in the world, Attorney, Mediator and Therapist, Bill Eddy, who shares the fundamentals of his BIFF Method for managing communication with a high conflict ex!
Whether you are divorcing a narcissist or are embroiled in any difficult relationship, a hallmark of a high conflict case is the flood of hostile calls, emails and texts that are repeatedly sent by one or both of the parties. This barrage often flows over into social media and into conversations with others. The constant cycle of conflict is crazy-making and seemingly impossible to control but that was until Bill Eddy and his BIFF method arrived! With the release of the third book in the BIFF series, "BIFF for Co-Parent Comunication," Bill Eddy helps you to regain a sense of control and peace that will benefit both your life and that of your children. The BIFF method will help you to craft responses to the hostile communications from your ex that will defuse the conflict and remove you from the cycle. Simply put, being Brief, Informative, Friendly and Firm (BIFF) is your key to freedom and there is simply no better guide out of the darkness of a high conflict relationship than Bill Eddy!
In this episode Bill shares:
The simple logic of being brief, informative, friendly and firm and why it works.
How YOU decide what kind of response you will receive from your ex.
Why you need to absolutely avoid the 3 A's.
A simple substitute for saying "I'm sorry . . ."
Why Bill says you should get Miranda Rights before you go on social media.
AND SO MUCH MORE!
This episode is absolute GOLD for anyone experiencing difficulty in communicating with a volatile ex so listen today and start taking your life back one BIFF at a time!
Get your copy of "BIFF for Co-Parents: Your Guide to Difficult Coparent Texts, Emails and Social Media Posts" here: https://amzn.to/3omR1bz
More about this week's very special guest: Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., Co-Founder | Chief Innovation Officer, San Diego, California is a lawyer, therapist, mediator, best-selling author, co-founder, and Chief Innovation Officer of the High Conflict Institute. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP Theory) and has become an international expert on managing disputes involving high conflict personalities and personality disorders. He provides training to lawyers, judges, mediators, managers, human resource professionals, businesspersons, healthcare administrators, college administrators, homeowners’ association managers, ombudspersons, law enforcement, therapists and others. He has been a speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries.
Visit the High Conflict Institute to find out more about Bill, the Institute's wealth of resources for managing high conflict relationships and more of Bill's books! https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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SIGN UP NOW FOR EARLY ACCESS TO THE DIVORCE & BEYOND MEMBERS ONLY COMMUNITY!
Those who register for early access will be able to lock in membership at only $5 per month and one lucky early access member will receive a FREE year of membership!
D & B Members Only will receive a number of benefits including:
Ad and Interruption Free Podcast Archive
BONUS Members Only Podcast Episodes monthly
Downloadable Worksheets, Spreadsheets and Other Forms
Access to the "Ask Susan Anything" Forum where you can ask your questions and learn from the answers to others.
AND MUCH MORE - SIGN UP FOR YOUR EARLY ACCESS NOW!
www.divorceandbeyondpod.com
Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq
Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter @DivorceBeyond
You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM
- published: 25 Jan 2021
- views: 5030
5:18
A BIFF Response Works!
Get the full video: https://high-conflict-institute-online-learning.teachable.com/courses
Are you burned out by hostile emails, rude texts and social media atta...
Get the full video: https://high-conflict-institute-online-learning.teachable.com/courses
Are you burned out by hostile emails, rude texts and social media attacks? A BIFF Response (sm) is Brief, Informative, Friendly and Firm. It helps you get back in control and feel good doing it!
https://wn.com/A_Biff_Response_Works
Get the full video: https://high-conflict-institute-online-learning.teachable.com/courses
Are you burned out by hostile emails, rude texts and social media attacks? A BIFF Response (sm) is Brief, Informative, Friendly and Firm. It helps you get back in control and feel good doing it!
- published: 07 Mar 2015
- views: 13879
2:34
Biff
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Biff · Aya Nakamura
AYA
℗ Label Rec. 118, ℗ 2020 Warner Music France
Lead Vocals: Aya Nakamura
Keyboards, Programming: Dram...
Provided to YouTube by Rec. 118
Biff · Aya Nakamura
AYA
℗ Label Rec. 118, ℗ 2020 Warner Music France
Lead Vocals: Aya Nakamura
Keyboards, Programming: Drama State
Producer: Drama State
Mixer: Fred Nlandu
Recorded by: Igor Dubois
Producer: Vladimir Boudnikoff
Lyricist: Aya Nakamura
Composer: Drama State
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Provided to YouTube by Rec. 118
Biff · Aya Nakamura
AYA
℗ Label Rec. 118, ℗ 2020 Warner Music France
Lead Vocals: Aya Nakamura
Keyboards, Programming: Drama State
Producer: Drama State
Mixer: Fred Nlandu
Recorded by: Igor Dubois
Producer: Vladimir Boudnikoff
Lyricist: Aya Nakamura
Composer: Drama State
Auto-generated by YouTube.
- published: 12 Nov 2020
- views: 3685297
38:30
Using BIFF Responses
Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter talk about using BIFF Responses, which are responses to use when a High Conflict Person sends you a hostile communication via email, ...
Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter talk about using BIFF Responses, which are responses to use when a High Conflict Person sends you a hostile communication via email, text, social media post, letter, or the like. Tune in to find out how to deal with these!
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People
Episode 2, Season 1
October 28, 2021
★ Episode details: https://share.transistor.fm/s/66b4d4f3
★ Additional episodes: https://trustory.fm/its-all-your-fault
https://wn.com/Using_Biff_Responses
Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter talk about using BIFF Responses, which are responses to use when a High Conflict Person sends you a hostile communication via email, text, social media post, letter, or the like. Tune in to find out how to deal with these!
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People
Episode 2, Season 1
October 28, 2021
★ Episode details: https://share.transistor.fm/s/66b4d4f3
★ Additional episodes: https://trustory.fm/its-all-your-fault
- published: 24 Jan 2023
- views: 403
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If You’re Texting Your Ex, Remember to BIFF
When you’re communicating with your ex about the children or other issues, it can be hard to pick up the phone and face the emotional challenge of a conversatio...
When you’re communicating with your ex about the children or other issues, it can be hard to pick up the phone and face the emotional challenge of a conversation. Texting or emailing can feel easier at times, but be sure to do it the right way.
Bill Eddy, of the High Conflict Institute, devised an acronym that provides a great tool for effective text and email communications — BIFF. This acronym reminds us to be: Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm. If you keep these four principles in mind, you can communicate effectively with as little animosity as possible.
BRIEF – Keep your communications brief. If you have a question or need to convey information, make sure your post is focused on one single message. Avoid compound questions or complicated explanations.
INFORMATIVE – If you know your co-parent is going to need background information, provide that information up front. For example, you might explain that you’re asking about this because that is happening.
FRIENDLY – Send the type of text message you would want to receive. Avoid snarky comments and don’t make it personal. Put your message in a tone that conveys “I’m friendly” and “I’m open to your answer.” Let your ex know that you are sending the message in good faith and asking for the same in return.
FIRM – Vague, sweeping statements can lead to misunderstanding. Instead, be firm and specific about why you are writing and what you need.
And that’s it. BIFF can be your new BFF to help you communicate without conflict in your text messages and emails.
https://wn.com/If_You’Re_Texting_Your_Ex,_Remember_To_Biff
When you’re communicating with your ex about the children or other issues, it can be hard to pick up the phone and face the emotional challenge of a conversation. Texting or emailing can feel easier at times, but be sure to do it the right way.
Bill Eddy, of the High Conflict Institute, devised an acronym that provides a great tool for effective text and email communications — BIFF. This acronym reminds us to be: Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm. If you keep these four principles in mind, you can communicate effectively with as little animosity as possible.
BRIEF – Keep your communications brief. If you have a question or need to convey information, make sure your post is focused on one single message. Avoid compound questions or complicated explanations.
INFORMATIVE – If you know your co-parent is going to need background information, provide that information up front. For example, you might explain that you’re asking about this because that is happening.
FRIENDLY – Send the type of text message you would want to receive. Avoid snarky comments and don’t make it personal. Put your message in a tone that conveys “I’m friendly” and “I’m open to your answer.” Let your ex know that you are sending the message in good faith and asking for the same in return.
FIRM – Vague, sweeping statements can lead to misunderstanding. Instead, be firm and specific about why you are writing and what you need.
And that’s it. BIFF can be your new BFF to help you communicate without conflict in your text messages and emails.
- published: 05 Mar 2021
- views: 47
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Aya Nakamura - Biff (Paroles)
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Bienvenue sur la chaîne P...
Nouvel album 'AYA' enfin disponible ici : https://AyaNakamura.lnk.to/aya
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https://wn.com/Aya_Nakamura_Biff_(Paroles)
Nouvel album 'AYA' enfin disponible ici : https://AyaNakamura.lnk.to/aya
New album 'AYA' out now : https://AyaNakamura.lnk.to/aya
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- published: 12 Nov 2020
- views: 321586
52:56
Better Communication with the BIFF Response
How do you use a BIFF Response in Divorce? -- Special thanks to Kristen Darcy Divorce Coaching for putting together the fabulous Divorcing Intact Virtual Summi...
How do you use a BIFF Response in Divorce? -- Special thanks to Kristen Darcy Divorce Coaching for putting together the fabulous Divorcing Intact Virtual Summit April 4-8, 2016 and for rounding up a dedicated group of experts to participate. Kristen Darcy is an award-winning author, motivational speaker, life coach & expert on the emotional aspects of infertility & divorce. Visit her website at www.kristendarcy.com
https://wn.com/Better_Communication_With_The_Biff_Response
How do you use a BIFF Response in Divorce? -- Special thanks to Kristen Darcy Divorce Coaching for putting together the fabulous Divorcing Intact Virtual Summit April 4-8, 2016 and for rounding up a dedicated group of experts to participate. Kristen Darcy is an award-winning author, motivational speaker, life coach & expert on the emotional aspects of infertility & divorce. Visit her website at www.kristendarcy.com
- published: 12 Apr 2016
- views: 1525